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Course 47 · Life system 14

Build Healthy Relationships, Boundaries & Consent

Recognize healthy patterns, communicate boundaries, practice clear consent, repair conflict, and respond to control or abuse safely.

What you’ll leave with

A relationship skills toolkit with values, boundary scripts, consent checks, conflict plan, warning-sign map, and confidential support options.

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A useful primer before lesson one.

This video is published by MacEwan University. It complements the Life Starter sequence; it does not replace the work inside the lessons.

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Course handbook

Know the route before you begin.

This is the working brief for the full course: who it serves, what to prepare, what good work looks like, and the language you will use along the way.

Who this is for

Learners building healthier friendships, family, dating, sexual, roommate, or work relationships and anyone who wants clearer skills for respect and safety.

Prepare before lesson one
  • Use fictional or generalized examples; do not place another person's private or identifying information in course work.
  • Save confidential local and national support contacts before examining warning signs if a relationship may be unsafe.
  • Do not use communication exercises to confront an abusive person; work with a trained advocate on a personalized safety plan.
Your final project

Finish with proof you can use.

Create a private relationship toolkit containing personal values, green and warning signs, five boundary scripts, a consent checklist, conflict and repair process, support contacts, and a safety decision map.

Three operating principles

The rules behind the steps.

01

Respect survives disagreement

Healthy relationships allow autonomy, honest communication, boundaries, accountability, and life outside the relationship.

02

Consent is active and ongoing

Consent must be freely given, informed, specific, reversible, and checked without pressure or assumptions.

03

Safety changes the communication plan

When control, threats, stalking, coercion, or violence are present, confidential support and safety planning take priority over joint problem-solving.

Working vocabulary

Key terms worth knowing.

Boundary
A limit or condition a person communicates about their body, time, information, belongings, energy, or participation.
Consent
A freely given, informed, specific, and reversible agreement to a particular activity at that time.
Coercion
Pressure, threats, manipulation, intimidation, or misuse of power that undermines a free choice.
Repair
Actions that acknowledge harm, take responsibility, make amends, and change behavior after a conflict or mistake.
Your route

Six lessons.
One finished outcome.

Work in order the first time. Each lesson makes something the next lesson can use.

  1. 1
    Up next

    Recognize healthy and unhealthy patterns

    Compare respect, trust, honesty, equality, independence, support, accountability, control, isolation, pressure, and fear over time.

  2. 2
    31 min

    Set, hear, and respect boundaries

    Communicate a clear limit, respond to another person's limit, and follow through without punishment or debate.

  3. 3
    33 min

    Practice clear, ongoing consent

    Ask, listen, check capacity and freedom, respect changes, and stop when agreement is absent or unclear.

  4. 4
    32 min

    Handle conflict and repair harm

    Discuss one issue safely, listen for impact and needs, make a specific agreement, and repair mistakes through changed behavior.

  5. 5
    34 min

    Respond to control, coercion, or abuse

    Recognize escalating harm, support someone without blame, preserve privacy, and connect with trained confidential help.

  6. 6
    28 min

    Build a relationship support plan

    Define values, boundaries, check-ins, digital privacy, support contacts, and safety actions for future relationships.

Use the tools

Make the lesson easier to act on.

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workbook

The Life Starter toolkit

Reusable planners and trackers for practical projects.

Source transparency

Trust, then verify.

The practice sequence is original editorial synthesis. Current rules, safety details, and platform requirements should be confirmed with these primary or authoritative sources. References reviewed September 9, 2026.

CDC — Teen dating violenceCDC — Verbal sexual consent researchlove is respect — Relationship resources
Ready when you are

Start with the first useful move.

You’ll always know what to do, what to make, and where to go next.

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