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Recognize healthy and unhealthy patterns

About 20 minutes
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Before you begin

The idea in everyday life

Compare respect, trust, honesty, equality, independence, support, accountability, control, isolation, pressure, and fear over time.

The idea

Judge repeated patterns and their impact, not only apologies, promises, labels, or isolated good moments.

Try it

One step at a time.

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  1. 1

    Describe what respect, trust, equality, privacy, independence, support, honesty, and shared decision-making look like in observable behavior.

  2. 2

    Identify patterns of jealousy, monitoring, humiliation, isolation, threats, coercion, financial control, sexual pressure, stalking, or physical harm.

  3. 3

    Notice how freely each person can say no, maintain other relationships, pursue goals, make choices, and seek help.

Example

See how it works.

Alex distinguishes a respectful schedule check-in from demands for passwords and proof of location throughout the day.

Check your work

Did you cover these?

  • Your work includes a fictional relationship pattern map with green, concerning, and unsafe behaviors, impact, trend, and support response.
  • Check this common mistake: Excusing repeated control because the person is affectionate later or treating jealousy and monitoring as proof of love.
  • You can classify observable patterns without blaming the person experiencing harm and match unsafe patterns to confidential help.
Your work

What to finish

A fictional relationship pattern map with green, concerning, and unsafe behaviors, impact, trend, and support response.

Common mistake

Watch for this

Excusing repeated control because the person is affectionate later or treating jealousy and monitoring as proof of love.

How can I tell I understand it?

You can classify observable patterns without blaming the person experiencing harm and match unsafe patterns to confidential help.

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1Which step is part of “Recognize healthy and unhealthy patterns”?
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3Which mistake should you watch for in this lesson?
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Optional course overview video
MacEwan UniversityRelationship Goals: Equality & RespectYouTube
Optional course overview

Relationship Goals: Equality & Respect

From MacEwan University. Watch here or open it on YouTube .

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