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Research and earn the conversation

About 25 minutes
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Before you begin

The idea in everyday life

Create relevant outreach that gives the recipient a rational reason to respond.

The idea

Good outreach is a small hypothesis, not a copied autobiography.

Try it

One step at a time.

Use the sample or information you have permission to use. Keep your work as you go. You can pause between steps.

  1. 1

    Research the person, organization, current initiative, likely problem, and any legitimate connection or trigger.

  2. 2

    Write a short message explaining why you are contacting this person, one thing you noticed, how you might help, and one easy next step.

  3. 3

    Choose an ethical channel and cadence that respects privacy, platform rules, and clear opt-outs.

  4. 4

    Track send date, message version, response, next action, and what the result taught you.

Example

See how it works.

The editor references a channel’s move from monthly to weekly releases and asks whether deadline consistency is now a constraint.

Check your work

Did you cover these?

  • Your work includes research notes about one possible buyer, three versions of your message, and a follow-up schedule that respects privacy, platform rules, and opt-outs.
  • Check this common mistake: Pretending a mass template is personal by inserting a first name and generic compliment.
  • The recipient can understand within seconds why the message is relevant and what response is requested.
Your work

What to finish

Research notes about one possible buyer, three versions of your message, and a follow-up schedule that respects privacy, platform rules, and opt-outs.

Common mistake

Watch for this

Pretending a mass template is personal by inserting a first name and generic compliment.

How can I tell I understand it?

The recipient can understand within seconds why the message is relevant and what response is requested.

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Quick knowledge check

Answer all 3 questions. Get at least 2 right and the lesson completes automatically.

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1Which step is part of “Research and earn the conversation”?
2What should you have made by the end of this lesson?
3Which mistake should you watch for in this lesson?
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Optional course overview video · same video as Lesson 1
Stanford Graduate School of BusinessThe Art of NegotiationYouTube
Optional course overview

The Art of Negotiation

From Stanford Graduate School of Business. Watch here or open it on YouTube .

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Sources and further reading

Explore the references behind this lesson.

Harvard Program on Negotiation — What Is Negotiation?
Source & access notes · checked 2026-09-10

Read the overview of interests, independent standards, alternatives, options, and communication.

Access: Free public article; other programs or certificates may be paid.

Reuse: All rights reserved. Linked as a reference; original Life Starter scenarios are not a Harvard course or endorsement.

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