Course 97 · Life course 27

Resolve Conflict and Repair Teamwork

Separate facts from assumptions, listen for the real concerns, and write a voluntary repair plan with follow-up.

Before you start

Use paper or a local document for a six-part project folder; a calculator is optional.

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What you’ll leave with

A practice conversation and agreement for resolving an ordinary team disagreement and checking that things improve.

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Your project

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Course handbook

Know the route before you begin.

Here’s what you’ll need and what you’ll make. You can return to this guide during any lesson.

Who this is for

Learners ages 14 and above, including adults returning to learning. Work independently with fictional data; no job, account, outreach, or adult legal authority is required.

Prepare before lesson one
  • Use paper or a local document for a six-part project folder; a calculator is optional.
  • Choose the fully supplied fictional scenario, or substitute a low-risk situation without personal or sensitive information.
  • Plan about 156 minutes of active reading and practice across six lessons; two lessons each week provides three-week pacing. Optional real-world research can be added after the required practice.
Your final project

Finish with proof you can use.

A conflict-repair portfolio with a fact record, listening script, interests map, voluntary agreement, repair and escalation plan, and follow-up review.

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See project checklist and review criteria

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What to include

  • A fact-and-impact record with interpretations separated and a neutral opening question.
  • A listening script with two paraphrases, two process questions, and a corrected understanding.
  • An interests-and-boundaries map with two provisional arrangements and unresolved agreement details.
  • A voluntary team agreement with deadline, ownership, confirmation, access fallback, and a review point.
  • A repair statement and escalation map distinguishing ordinary disagreement, authority limits, and unsafe conduct.
  • A conflict-repair portfolio with two-cycle evidence, a revised handoff process, and a specific reflection.

Review and revise

Use these criteria to check your work and choose what to improve.

  • Fact discipline: separates observations, reported explanations, interpretations, and work impact without assigning unsupported motives.
  • Listening and boundaries: uses correctable paraphrases, identifies practical interests, and preserves privacy, availability, safety, and the option to seek support.
  • Agreement quality: chooses a time that fits both research and review constraints, specifies each role’s actions, and includes confirmation, fallback, consent, and a review point.
  • Repair and follow-up: acknowledges impact without demanding forgiveness, routes threats or authority issues appropriately, and evaluates the two sample cycles against observable terms.
Three ideas to help you along the way
Three useful ideas

The rules behind the steps.

01

Facts before stories

Separate observable events from interpretations about motives.

02

Agreement with consent

Make work arrangements specific while respecting boundaries and the option to seek support.

03

Repair through behavior

Acknowledge impact and test a changed process without demanding forgiveness.

What do these words mean?
Key words

Key terms worth knowing.

Observation
An event or detail that can be described without adding a motive.
Interpretation
An explanation attached to events that may need verification.
Interest
The need or concern behind a preferred solution.
Boundary
A limit on acceptable conduct, sharing, or availability.
Repair
An action that acknowledges impact and corrects what can be corrected.
Escalation
Taking a concern to a role or service with appropriate authority or support capacity.
Your route

6 lessons.
One useful project.

Work in order the first time. Each lesson makes something the next lesson can use.

  1. 1
    Up next

    Separate facts, stories, and impact

    Build a neutral incident record for an ordinary teamwork disagreement.

  2. 2
    24 min

    Listen and check understanding

    Practice paraphrasing and questions that reveal needs without demanding disclosure.

  3. 3
    26 min

    Identify interests and boundaries

    Separate the solution each person wants, the need behind it, and the limits they will not give up.

  4. 4
    28 min

    Choose a workable team agreement

    Evaluate options and write a specific voluntary agreement.

  5. 5
    26 min

    Repair impact and use escalation appropriately

    Draft a repair action and distinguish when peer discussion is insufficient.

  6. 6
    31 min

    Review the repair and team process

    Check how the next two handoffs went, then improve the agreement without judging someone’s character.

Use the tools

Tools to help you practice.

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Source transparency

Sources and further study.

Explore the references behind the lessons and take your learning further. Source notes explain access and reuse.

University of Kansas — Training for Conflict Resolution
Source & access notes · checked 2026-09-10

Read interests, listening, options, agreed criteria, and mediator sections. We use these only for ordinary voluntary teamwork disagreements; threats and coercion are explicitly excluded from negotiation practice.

Access: Public reading verified without an account; optional further reading, no paid course or certificate required.

Reuse: Reference only; original Life Starter explanations and practice. Public access is not permission to copy materials or logos.

Harvard Program on Negotiation — What Is Conflict Resolution, and How Does It Work?
Source & access notes · checked 2026-09-10

Read the public article’s interpretation traps and distinctions among negotiation and mediation. Optional article is accessible without enrollment; advertised paid programs are not required or endorsed.

Access: Public reading verified without an account; optional further reading, no paid course or certificate required.

Reuse: Reference only; original Life Starter explanations and practice. Public access is not permission to copy materials or logos.

EEOC — Harassment
Source & access notes · checked 2026-09-10

Opened and read reporting and case-specific evaluation information. Page states it is under review. Used only to distinguish reporting concerns from ordinary task disagreements; no legal test, filing deadline, or coverage determination is taught.

Access: Public reading verified without an account; optional further reading, no paid course or certificate required.

Reuse: Reference only; original Life Starter explanations and practice. Public access is not permission to copy materials or logos.

Ready when you are

Start with the first useful move.

You’ll always know what to do, what to make, and where to go next.

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